How To Become A Foster Parent

Foster parents provide safe shelter and adult guidance during some of the most turbulent moments in a child's life. Foster parents don't formally adopt the children. However, fostering can lead to permanent adoption down the line. Foster parents take on a lot of responsibility, but they get the love of a child in return. If you want to open your heart and your home, learn more about how to become a foster parent. 

Learn the Laws in Your State 

Each state determines the rules and requirements for becoming a foster parent. Learn the laws in your area before you start the process. Ask for resources at your local social services office or schedule an appointment with a counselor. 

In most cases, foster parents will need to meet income requirements and pass a background check. A social worker will also need to inspect the household.

In certain states, foster parents must get a special certificate or go through classes before taking a foster child. 

Fill Out the Paperwork and Schedule Home Visits

To get the ball rolling, choose the organization you plan to work with then contact them to start the process. You will need to fill out initial paperwork that states your current living situation as well as your goals with the foster care process. Once you take the first steps, that's only the beginning. 

Commit Emotionally and Financially 

For your kindness, the government may also provide you with money. However, the government funds probably won't cover all of the expenses. Expect to pay for the child out of your pocket regularly. The child will need food, clothes, toys, school supplies, medicine, and entertainment funds. You need to be prepared to take on this financial responsibility. 

Arguably even more important, you need to prepare yourself emotionally for the task of taking in a foster child. Many foster children hold on to traumatic experiences that may manifest in emotional or behavioral problems. Be prepared to offer therapy. You should also be prepared to establish a bond with the child — and then let them go. 

Prepare a Bedroom

Once you get through the red tape and prepare yourself, it's time to prepare for the child. You can decorate a bedroom in advance. However, consider putting together a basic bedroom and then letting the child decorate it. It will make them feel more at home. 

If you feel a calling to help, do it. Start the process today. Contact a local company, like The Up Center.


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